Who you say YES! to being is the life you say YES! to living. And after nine weeks of shifts and realignments in this Summer Secret Series, it’s time to get crystal clear on who you are saying YES! to in this next season of you.

Welcome to The Self-Creation School podcast, for women who are ready to ditch mediocrity, step up and get more of what they want, and finally say YES! to a life that sets their soul on fire. I’m your host Leanne Letica, Self-Creation Coach, founder of The Self-Creation School AND Queen of YES!. If you’re ready to play life by your own personal rule book, and give yourself permission to say YES! to yourself and your wildest dreams, this podcast is the place for you.

Welcome to week ten of my Summer Secrets Series. Can you believe we only have three more secrets after this one? I’m in such a reflective mood today, thinking about how far we’ve come together since the start of the series. And if you’re new here, these secrets really do build on each other, so I definitely recommend that you follow along from week one.

We really have covered so much ground over these past nine weeks. We started by giving ourselves permission to pause and be present. We talked about making space for what truly matters and evolving who we are to match the life we want. We explored redefining success on our own terms and choosing alignment over achievement.

We’ve intentionally added pleasure to our days, elevated our standards, and set boundaries to honor them. And just last week we talked about taking responsibility for our own emotions instead of everyone else’s.

All of this work, every single shift, comes back to one fundamental truth. Your identity shapes your reality. Who you choose to be determines the life you get to live.

But here’s what I’ve noticed. Most of us are much clearer about who we’ve been than who we’re becoming. We can tell you all about our past patterns, our old stories, our previous versions of ourselves. But ask us to describe the woman we are evolving ? That’s where it gets a little fuzzy. And that’s exactly why today’s secret is so important.

Who you’re becoming matters more than who you’ve been. Your past self got you here, and that’s something to honor. But your future self, she’s the one who’s going to live the life you’ve been creating through all of these Summer Shifts.

Think about it. The woman who gives herself permission to pause and be present, how does she show up differently? The woman who has clear boundaries and elevated standards, what does she prioritize? The woman who takes responsibility for her own emotions and creates pleasure in her everyday moments, how does she move through the world?

Listen, your identity isn’t fixed. It’s not something that happened to you in the past that you’re stuck with forever. Your identity is something you get to choose moment by moment, decision by decision. And every time you choose thoughts, actions, and behaviors that align with who you’re becoming rather than who you’ve been, you reinforce that new identity. You make it real.

The most successful people understand this. They don’t just set goals and hope for the best. They get clear on who they need to be to achieve those goals, and then they start being that person today. Because here’s the thing, you don’t magically become that woman someday when you reach your goals. You become her now, and that’s how you reach your goals.

So, this week I want you to complete this powerful statement five different ways: The woman I’m becoming is someone who. The woman I’m becoming is someone who.

Think about all the shifts we’ve explored together. Think about the life you want to experience. Think about how you want to feel in your daily reality. And then describe her, this woman you are saying YES! to becoming.

Maybe she’s someone who prioritizes her well-being without guilt. Maybe she’s someone who speaks her truth with kindness and confidence. Maybe she’s someone who creates beauty in ordinary moments. Maybe she’s someone who trusts her intuition and acts on it.

Write these statements down, read them regularly. Start owning and embodying them today. Because the woman you’re becoming isn’t some future version of yourself, she’s available to you right now in this moment with the very next choice you make about who you be.

And that is this week’s Summer Secret.

Make sure you hit subscribe for our final three secrets and join the Summer Secrets email series at https://selfcreationschool.com/created for a reminder to listen in.

I’ll see you same time, same place for another Summer Secret next week.

Until then, be the woman who says YES!.

Who you say YES! to being is the life you say YES! to living. And after nine weeks of shifts and realignments in this Summer Secret Series, it’s time to get crystal clear on who you are saying YES! to in this next season of you.

Welcome to The Self-Creation School podcast, for women who are ready to ditch mediocrity, step up and get more of what they want, and finally say YES! to a life that sets their soul on fire. I’m your host Leanne Letica, Self-Creation Coach, founder of The Self-Creation School AND Queen of YES!. If you’re ready to play life by your own personal rule book, and give yourself permission to say YES! to yourself and your wildest dreams, this podcast is the place for you.

Welcome to week ten of my Summer Secrets Series. Can you believe we only have three more secrets after this one? I’m in such a reflective mood today, thinking about how far we’ve come together since the start of the series. And if you’re new here, these secrets really do build on each other, so I definitely recommend that you follow along from week one.

We really have covered so much ground over these past nine weeks. We started by giving ourselves permission to pause and be present. We talked about making space for what truly matters and evolving who we are to match the life we want. We explored redefining success on our own terms and choosing alignment over achievement.

We’ve intentionally added pleasure to our days, elevated our standards, and set boundaries to honor them. And just last week we talked about taking responsibility for our own emotions instead of everyone else’s.

All of this work, every single shift, comes back to one fundamental truth. Your identity shapes your reality. Who you choose to be determines the life you get to live.

But here’s what I’ve noticed. Most of us are much clearer about who we’ve been than who we’re becoming. We can tell you all about our past patterns, our old stories, our previous versions of ourselves. But ask us to describe the woman we are evolving ? That’s where it gets a little fuzzy. And that’s exactly why today’s secret is so important.

Who you’re becoming matters more than who you’ve been. Your past self got you here, and that’s something to honor. But your future self, she’s the one who’s going to live the life you’ve been creating through all of these Summer Shifts.

Think about it. The woman who gives herself permission to pause and be present, how does she show up differently? The woman who has clear boundaries and elevated standards, what does she prioritize? The woman who takes responsibility for her own emotions and creates pleasure in her everyday moments, how does she move through the world?

Listen, your identity isn’t fixed. It’s not something that happened to you in the past that you’re stuck with forever. Your identity is something you get to choose moment by moment, decision by decision. And every time you choose thoughts, actions, and behaviors that align with who you’re becoming rather than who you’ve been, you reinforce that new identity. You make it real.

The most successful people understand this. They don’t just set goals and hope for the best. They get clear on who they need to be to achieve those goals, and then they start being that person today. Because here’s the thing, you don’t magically become that woman someday when you reach your goals. You become her now, and that’s how you reach your goals.

So, this week I want you to complete this powerful statement five different ways: The woman I’m becoming is someone who. The woman I’m becoming is someone who.

Think about all the shifts we’ve explored together. Think about the life you want to experience. Think about how you want to feel in your daily reality. And then describe her, this woman you are saying YES! to becoming.

Maybe she’s someone who prioritizes her well-being without guilt. Maybe she’s someone who speaks her truth with kindness and confidence. Maybe she’s someone who creates beauty in ordinary moments. Maybe she’s someone who trusts her intuition and acts on it.

Write these statements down, read them regularly. Start owning and embodying them today. Because the woman you’re becoming isn’t some future version of yourself, she’s available to you right now in this moment with the very next choice you make about who you be.

And that is this week’s Summer Secret.

Make sure you hit subscribe for our final three secrets and join the Summer Secrets email series at https://selfcreationschool.com/created for a reminder to listen in.

I’ll see you same time, same place for another Summer Secret next week.

Until then, be the woman who says YES!.